For adults who want to be honest about what they're into. Casual, dating, play partners or long-term, with kink matching when you want it. Free to join.
Be among the first in New York · 100 founding places left
Matched on what matters
Relationship style, lifestyle and, if you switch it on, a kink profile with fifty-six interests marked Love it, Curious or Hard limit. You see compatibility before you say hello.
Verified, not flooded
Photo verification you can actually earn, messaging only after a match, and reports read by a person.
Local to New York
Your feed starts with people within about 80 km. Visiting instead? Add a trip and the locals see you too.
Coming up in New York
Nothing listed in New York yet. Run a munch, class or social here? List it free; events are public and members nearby see them.
Yes. VestaDate is open in every US city. Joining from New York gives you a local feed of people within about 80 km, and New York has its own events listing.
Is VestaDate only for kink?
No. VestaDate is adult dating for people who want to be honest about what they are into: casual, dating, play partners or long-term. The kink profile is optional; switch it on and it joins the match, leave it off and it is invisible.
I am visiting New York. Can I use it?
Yes. Add a trip with your dates and, while you are there, people in New York see you in their Discover with a Visiting badge and yours shows them. You can also browse New York from anywhere without adding a trip.
What does it cost?
Joining, matching and messaging after a match are free. Premium adds unlimited likes, Super Likes, travel plans, incognito mode, rewind, read receipts, who viewed you, who liked you and advanced filters. During launch everyone has Premium; the first 100 members in New York are founding members and keep it for a year after.